Love: Beyond Responsibility and Obligation

Love: Beyond Responsibility and Obligation

Written by Meg

 

Yesterday night, one of the articles that caught my attention was my all-time favourite “The Qualities of a Godly Husband”. Thanks for my unknown viewer and for that let me share with you one of the stories that I believe as married couples need not to take for granted.

It is all about how well you know your partner?

Let me explain. Man and woman are two different individuals. Each has their own unique way of expressing their emotions, thoughts and actions. Generally, they are absolutely opposite but the good thing, these two are designed perfectly to complement each other. I had learned so much of this in the book “Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus” The Classic Guide to Understanding Opposite Sex by Dr. John Gray, PhD.

I encouraged every couple, husband and wife, married and soon to be married to read and re-read this book. There’s a lot to learn in here. It will elucidate one by one why man and woman act differently. By all means, couple will understand more his or her partner in a different level. It will also help both partners to communicate well, understand well that will bring them more happiness, joy and strengthen their relationship as well.

The challenge is... some couples are ignorant about how their partners behave as husband and wives, boyfriend and girlfriend which can lead to unresolved conflict and confusion resulting to infidelity, abuse and eventually broken relationship or even divorce.

Regardless of social status, beauty, fame and fortune, some may failed in relationship and marriage. I learned this from the story of late Princess Diana. A woman who wants love and affection from a husband who in the first place loved another one. My questions such as, what went wrong if they have everything is this world has to offer? Is she not enough? Why being so selfish can kill a passionate love?

(to be continued)