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The Importance of Friendship
by Dr. Paul Chappell
“Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour. For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow: but woe to him that is alone when he falleth; for he hath not another to help him up. Again, if two lie together, then they have heat: but how can one be warm alone? And if one prevail against him, two shall withstand him; and a threefold cord is not quickly broken.”
Ecclesiastes 4:9–12
Following his success at Kansas, UCLA hired Franklin “Pepper” Rodgers to be their head football coach in 1971. The season started with four straight losses, and alumni and fans loudly expressed their displeasure with the new leader. Later, Rodgers looked back on that painful season, which ended with only two wins and a last place finish in their conference. “My dog was my only true friend,” he wrote. “I told my wife that every man needs at least two good friends. She bought me another dog.”
There are tough times in everyone’s life, and one of the things that make it easier for us to handle difficult days is the presence of a true friend. Much of the pain we experience comes not just from the circumstances, but from the feeling that no one else really knows or cares what we are going through. The Apostle Paul knew this feeling. Late in his life looking back under the direction of the Holy Spirit he wrote to Timothy, “At my first answer no man stood with me, but all men forsook me: I pray God that it may not be laid to their charge” (2 Timothy 4:16).
While we cannot control whether we have a friend in moments of crisis (though certainly there are things we can do to establish and strengthen friendships), we can control whether we are a true friend to those who are hurting.
Ecclesiastes 4:9–12
Following his success at Kansas, UCLA hired Franklin “Pepper” Rodgers to be their head football coach in 1971. The season started with four straight losses, and alumni and fans loudly expressed their displeasure with the new leader. Later, Rodgers looked back on that painful season, which ended with only two wins and a last place finish in their conference. “My dog was my only true friend,” he wrote. “I told my wife that every man needs at least two good friends. She bought me another dog.”
There are tough times in everyone’s life, and one of the things that make it easier for us to handle difficult days is the presence of a true friend. Much of the pain we experience comes not just from the circumstances, but from the feeling that no one else really knows or cares what we are going through. The Apostle Paul knew this feeling. Late in his life looking back under the direction of the Holy Spirit he wrote to Timothy, “At my first answer no man stood with me, but all men forsook me: I pray God that it may not be laid to their charge” (2 Timothy 4:16).
While we cannot control whether we have a friend in moments of crisis (though certainly there are things we can do to establish and strengthen friendships), we can control whether we are a true friend to those who are hurting.
Today’s Growth Principle:
Reach out today to someone who is going through a hard time and offer them comfort and encouragement.
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